A humble abode should always feel like ‘yours’, no matter how long you plan to stay there
Everyone deserves a warm, safe, and comfortable home. Unfortunately, many of us face uncertain living situations. Whether it’s renting when we’d prefer to own, couch-surfing while job hunting, or living with family to manage childcare and utility costs, temporary accommodation can feel unsettling.
According to Shelter, 24,360 households in England are living in B&Bs and hostels – a rise of 17% in a year. This kind of instability can lead to feelings of isolation, insecurity, and hopelessness.
“As humans, we experience a longing for comfort and personal connection in spaces,” explains psychotherapist, Isabella Barrand. However, even if you’re living somewhere that feels temporary, there are a myriad of ways you can make it feel like home – and doing so can be powerful. Here are the best ways to go about it.
1. Claim your space
While you might not be able to repaint walls or hang permanent fixtures, there are creative ways to make your living space feel personal and inviting. Portable decor, such as cushions, blankets, and rugs can instantly transform a room – and can easily be transported when you move. “Choose colours, textures, or patterns that resonate with your personality to create a sense of ownership,” says Isabella. Furthermore, art prints, posters, or photographs can be displayed on walls without causing damage thanks to no-mark hanging strips that can be found in hardware stores. “These little touches not only reflect your identity, but also make the space feel welcoming and warm,” explains Isabella. “Adding these items can help bridge the emotional gap between a temporary arrangement, and the comfort of a home.”
2. Create functional zones
In shared spaces, creating zones for different activities can make the area feel organised and purposeful. Position furniture strategically, using rugs to define specific areas, or folding screens or bookshelves to act as partitions for added privacy. “This approach not only maximises your use of space, but also helps you mentally separate different activities, fostering productivity and relaxation,” says Isabella. By making the space a reflection of your own needs and preferences, you’ll feel more in control – even when your sense of stability is slightly off.
3. Let there be light
Lighting is one of the simplest ways to switch up the vibes of a room. “Customised lighting not only makes the space feel more personal, but it also creates a comforting environment,” says Isabella. One of the easiest ways to add cosiness is by using lamps (which can be transported to your next place) instead of harsh overhead lighting. You can add your own stamp by choosing a quirky lampshade, or thrifting an interesting base – just make sure to buy bulbs with warm hues to achieve that ambient effect. Fairy lights are another relatively inexpensive way to add sparkle to a drab living space – try draping them around your headboard, along bookshelves, or in any areas that lack natural light.
4. Personalise everyday items
Often it’s the smallest changes that can make the biggest difference in how a space feels. Subtle adjustments to the objects and decor allow you to interact daily with items that reflect your personality, creating a stronger sense of connection to the place, even if it is only temporary. “Consider investing in bedding that you love, with colours or patterns that bring you joy – this simple change can turn your sleeping area into a sanctuary. Or, add a personal touch to your workspace by including a favourite mug, a small plant, or a photo frame,” Isabella suggests.
5. Budget-friendly solutions
Transforming your space doesn’t have to break the bank and, often, the most effective touches are free or inexpensive. “Bring in fresh flowers, branches, or pebbles to add a natural, calming element to your space,” Isabella recommends. Alternatively, perhaps try playing around with the layout. “Rearranging furniture costs nothing, but can dramatically change how a room feels. Experiment with layouts to find one that maximises comfort and flow,” Isabella adds.
6. Anchor yourself emotionally
Making a space feel like home isn’t just about physical changes, but how you connect to the place. Creating self-care rituals linked to your home can help you feel more settled. “Remember, home is less about the physical surroundings, and more about how they make you feel. By actively nurturing your connection to the space, you are encouraging stability and comfort,” Isabella says. Incorporating routines, such as lighting a scented candle at the end of the day, journaling over breakfast, or playing calming music to signal ‘me time’ can make the space feel like yours. “These emotional anchors can reduce stress, improve mood, and remind you that temporary spaces support your wellbeing when you invest time and care into them.”
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